Living After Dying

BH

This weeks Parsha is called Vayechi, which means "he lived." The name of the Parsha refers to how Jacob lived the last years of his life in Egypt, as the very first verse references his last 17 years there.

We are always taught that the name of the Parsha is all inclusive of the Parsha itself, teaching us what we will learn within.

This seems strange when we think about the fact that the Parsha called VaYechireferring to Yakov’s life in Egypt in fact talks mostly about Yakov’s death and the surrounding events. Wouldn’t you think the Parsha would refer to the actual life of Yakov?!

In the Parsha, following Yakov’s deliverance of his final blessings to his children and grandchildren, Yakov breathes his final breath and “expires,” as the Torah describes it. All of his descendants, members of the Egyptian rule and more escort Yakov’s remains to the Holy Land for burial in the Cave of Machpela.

However, the Torah never actually states that Yakov died! What is this all meant to teach?

Interestingly, the name of this Parsha is very simila to that of a few weeks ago when we read Parshat Chayei Sarah – the Life of Sarah. That Parsha is called the Life of Sarah and again, talks mostly about her death and the following events.

I was explained in reference to Parshat Chayei Sarah that true life is judged by our offsprings. Sarah truly lived, as can be seen by the child, Isaac that she raised. She left a great legacy, and through Isaac, continued to live.

Sarah lived many years amongst immoral, non believers. The fact that she was able to impart on Isaac the Jewish identity that she did shows that she really lived.

Yakov lived his last 17 years in Egypt, a land known for its lack of morals, its indecency, and many trials and tribulations to true faith found everywhere. Yet, Yakov was able to leave his descendants with a true sense of Jewish identity and pride. His descendants were the next link in the chain that has followed until today.

Therefore, when the Torah refers to Yakov’s stopping to breathe, rather than him dying, its a telling of the true life that he lived. The truest ever. In fact the Talmud even offers that in reality, Jacob in fact did not die!

Furthermore, as we shall see, Jacob's death signaled the beginning of the descent that would conclude with the physical enslavement of all his descendants. The fact that the Jewish people remained loyal to Jacob's heritage even under such antagonistic circumstances is further proof that his death was the truest indication that not only was he was "alive" during his lifetime, but continued to remain so afterwards, as well.

The lessons we learn from the Parsha each week are lessons for today, not lessons of yesterday. We must apply them to our daily lives in the current, and not view them as a matter of the past. Keeping that in mind, the most prominent lesson of parashat Vayechi is that we can perform our Jewish duties, just as Sarah, Yakov, Yosef and so many before us weathered the odds of their surrounding and the trials and tribulations they offered.

The challenges of the modern world are indeed tricky, but we can beat them if we remain committed to the basic guidelines of Judaism and raise our children in said fashion!

It is thus fitting that the first book of the Torah ends with the message ofVayechi, "he lived." As the page turns from the groundwork laid by our ancestors and we begin the journey of our people becoming a nation – the chosen nation – it is vital that we recognize where this nation comes from. And where the life - the connection with G-d and Torah – actually comes from.

Parashat Vayechi reminds us that the Book of Genesis is not just a good book with stories of our forefathers who have since passed. In fact, they are alive, truly alive, and it is only by us identifying as Jewish people that they remain alive!

Lets continue to live and teach others to live!

Don't Let the Light Go Out

BH

This Shabbat is very unique. On Shabbat we are always encompassed by the holiness of G-d and Torah, more so than during the remainder of the week. On Chanukah, we are surrounded by light which illuminates the world with holiness.

On Shabbat-Chanukah, we are literally living a full Shabbat of awesomeness! The holiness of Shabbat and the light of Chanukah come together to inspire the Jewish people and give a spark as we move forward on the calendar.

Chanukah is a very unique and special time. Many lessons are learned from the holiday. The most popular theme of Chanukah is the lights.

Chassidic masters have taught over and over again how light changes the world. Of course we ask ourselves, “Why do I need a Chassidic Rabbi to tell me that light eradicates darkness?”

Good question indeed.

When a candle, emitting one small flame, is lit in a huge room, the light changes the entire room. Chassidism compares this physical fact to a spiritual fact: Do one good deed and the entire landscape of the world changes!

The Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Schneerson once wrote a letter to the participants of several public Menorah Lightings in the United States. In that letter the Rebbe opens with; “Chanukah, the Festival of Lights, recalls the victory—more than 2100 years ago—of a militarily weak but spiritually strong Jewish people over the mighty forces of a ruthless enemy that had overrun the Holy Land and threatened to engulf the land and its people in darkness.

What the Rebbe is stressing in the opening of the letter is how the spiritual strength – the LIGHT – of the Jewish army, led them to victory over their enemy – over the darkness.

The Rebbe then continues in his letter, “The Chanukah Lights remind us in a most obvious way that illumination begins at home, within oneself and one’s family, by increasing and intensifying the light of Torah and Mitzvos in the everyday experience.”

The Rebbe – as seen through his army of emissaries around the globe – was a pioneer in kindling the light! The Rebbe told everyone to be “LAMPLIGHTERS” and spread the light wherever they go. Yes, we must create the spark at home, but the next step is to take that spark and extend it, one wick at a time, until the entire world is engulfed in G-dliness.

“Such is the nature of light that when one kindles the Chanukah Lights which are expressly meant to illuminate the “outside,” symbolically alluding to the duty to bring light also to those who, for one reason or another, still walk in darkness. “ the Rebbe explains.

It is important that each of us take a lesson for life from our Holidays and traditions which seemingly celebrate happenings of thousands of years ago. The truth is, the celebration of Chanukah, and of other Jewish Holidays, is a celebration of the present.

The original celebrations of Chanukah celebrated the victory of the weak over the mighty, the few over the many and so on. Today’s celebration of Chanukah commemorates that and celebrates the modern day victory of goodness over evil and the triumph of what is right over it’s adversaries.

The goal of today’s celebrations of Chanukah is to create holiness out of mundane just as we create the holy Chanukah lights from a simple candle. We must transform the world and make it holy so the words of the prophet Zechariah , found in this week’s special Shabbat Chanukah Haftarah, will be fulfilled.

"Sing and rejoice, O daughter of Zion, for, behold! I will come and dwell in your midst, says the L-rd."

By creating spirituality and goodness in this world, we constantly illuminate it and bring G-d and his glory closer.

As the Rebbe concludes his letter, “Let us pray that the message of the Chanukah Lights will illuminate the everyday life of everyone personally, and of the society at large, for a brighter life in every respect, both materially and spiritually”

For Self or for All?

BH

This is what man is all about; this is the purpose of his creation and of the creation of all the worlds, sublime and lowly—to make for G‑d a dwelling in the physical world.

—Likkutei Amarim 33

Today is Yud Tes Kislev, the 19th day of the Jewish month of Kislev, also known as the Rosh Hashanah L’Chassidus, The New Year of Chassidus.

On this date (and tomorrow), Chassidim joyfully celebrate with farbrengens (Chassidic gatherings) and an increased commitment to the ways and teachings of Chassidism. Today we also restart the yearly cycle of daily study of the Tanya, Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi's major Chassidic writing.

Tanya is the one-size-fits-all manual for life. The Tanya compacts four millennia of Jewish wisdom to answer the great personal and existential questions of life. It has revolutionized the way we think about G-d, the human soul, the world and our place in it.

Tanya and Chassidus as a whole give purpose to life and everything within. Purpose has been given to the most mundane of things, as Tanya teaches us to see the G-dliness and holiness within everything.

On this 19 Kislev, I would like to wish you, as Chassidim generally wish each other “L’shana Tova B’Limud Ha’Chassidus ub’Darchei Ha’Chassidus” – Happy new year of learning and living the teachings of Chassidus!

In the Parsha this week, Parshat VaYeishev, we learn about Yosef (Joseph) and the envy of his brothers. We are also taught that the envy of Yosef’s brotherYehudah (Judah) was greater than the others.

As it is the New Year of Chassidus, I would like to present a Chassidic view on this conflict and how it pertains to our daily lives.

Chassidus teaches us that the conflict between Yosef and Yehudah compares to our daily conflicts between growth and self-fulfillment on the one side, and humility and commitment on the other.

There are many reasons we act the way we do and perform the actions we do, however all of our actions fall under two categories; for ourselves and for something greater (others, society, G-d, etc.). Both are reasonable, as we must worry about ourselves, and would be considered wicked people if we never focused on something greater.

Yosef, whose name means "to add," represents growth and achievement, whileYehudah, means "to acknowledge" and "to submit" compares to commitment and restraint.

These two forces, through everything we do, fight each other to front. Some days one wins, some days the other. (Also, this is a model of times throughout Jewish history, as the camps of Yehudah and Yosef continuously fought for leadership of Israel…)

Chassidus, present a unique view to this. We are taught that these two “camps” actually unite down the road. The point when we are able to comprehend that while we do something for ‘the self’ we can then transform that into action for the greater society. As the Talmud relates "Learning is greater because it brings to deed." A better self -- a more knowing, sensitive, accomplished self -- is a self better equipped to fulfill its purpose in creation.

Making ourselves better is in fact the act of doing something for the long-run, for the sake of the greater good. That is the purpose of creation, as Tanya teaches (as quoted at the top of this article) “This is what man is all about; this is the purpose of his creation and of the creation of all the worlds, sublime and lowly—to make for G‑d a dwelling in the physical world.”

We make G-d a dwelling place by transforming everything we do into good and holy. By focusing on the positive energy within everything and by commiting to make ourselves better so we can in turn make the world better!

Loss of a Legend

BH

(This Dvar Torah is dedicated in loving memory of my friend, Levi Yitzchak ben Zalman Yuda, A"H, Rabbi Levi Deitsch, The Chabad Shliach to Tysons Corner, VA since 2002. Levi, we miss you!)

I’ve known Rabbi Levi Deitsch for over 15 years, first as merely co-summer camp mates but later as a colleague and friend. I always knew Levi as a cheerful, friendly and exciting fellow. Always with a smile, kind word or both, Levi was the ultimate people’s person.

In 2002, Levi moved to my home state of Virginia to start up a Chabad House in the Tysons Corner area. I was honored that Levi was moving to my state. Living in Virginia then, I was anxious to make my way north to visit. I saw him there several times, and even spent the night with he and his wife as my hosts.

Levi and Miriams legendary hospitality was nothing short that night. My friend, who was not observant, and I felt more than welcome and as comfortable as home. Not to mention it was three days before Chanukah and it’s not like they had nothing else to do.

Levi was busy arranging Chanukah events, distribution of Menorahs for Jewish locals and he was supervising the operation of his spectacular Chanukah Wonderland. With all this going on, Levi took his time for us. Levi Deitsch always put others first. That’s what made him “Levi Deitsch!”

That was 2005. In 2006, Levi lost his father, Zalman, a young man whose passing was sudden and tragic. I was out of the country and tried fruitlessly to reach him to offer condolences. The connection was never made.

A week later, unimaginably, Levi’s uncle (Zalman’s brother) Yaisef passed. Now back in the country, I paid a Shiva call. I saw Levi there, offered some comforting words and inquired as to how he was doing. His response blew me away.

I still remember until today where I was and what he said to me that night. “We don’t ask questions. G-d has a plan. We must accept it.” Levi’s father had passed a week ago. Now he was mourning the death of his uncle yet, such faith? How could a man be so devoted?

But that exactly who Levi was! He was a devoted man. Devoted to G-d. Devoted to his Rebbe. Devoted to his wife Miriam and four beautiful children, Chaya, Mirel, Mendel and Zalman. Devoted to his Chabad House and Tysons Corner Jewish Community. Devoted to making this world a better place!

In 2007, Levi was diagnosed with cancer. What a blow to his young family and growing community. But Levi did not allow this to deter him. The doctors gave him a couple months at best, but Levi vowed to fight! And fight he did!

In the Parsha this week, Parshat VaYishlach, Yaakov (Jaob) prepares to meet his brother. Yaakov and Esav are not getting along and Jacob practices three methods of protection to look after himself and his family. First he tries to reconcile then he prepares for battle. After all is set and ready to go, Yaakov turns to G-d and prays.

Levi did the same. Levi spoke with the doctors in reconciliation and made certain to understand what he was up against. Then prepared to stare his illness in the eye and chase it out. Levi’s prayers and the prayers of others pushed the disease back and allowed Levi to continue his fight forward.

Levi was strong and committed. And his faith in G-d and Torah allowed him to survive for several years longer than the doctors predicted. Levi’s stubborn conviction gave him the will to keep going. Levi’s humor, intellect and vigor never let up even though he was becoming weaker and sicker.

Levi did not allow it!

In May of this year, an unthinkable tragedy hit Levi’s family when their youngest, Nosson, was killed in a boating accident. Levi was frail and ill, yet made the trip to New York for the funeral and Shiva. I went to visit the family at their home. Amongst many visitors, I shuffled in quietly not knowing what to do or say. Its moments like these that we are thankful for lack of practice.

The mood was somber and the home mostly quiet, except from one corner of the room came a laugh. I peered to see who it was and noticed Levi. I approached only to find him “comforting” the comforters. What a moment that was to see, Levi, as sick as he was, did not want others to feel uncomfortable around him because of the situation. He immediately broke the ice. Inspiring.

In Levi’s merit, in the last couple of months, vigorous prayer campaigns were set out to beseech the almighty to grant Levi a speedy recovery and the mercy he needed. School children, business people, family, friends and complete strangers came together to pray for Rabbi Levi Deitsch.

Yet, this past Shabbat, Levi was taken from this world and returned to his creator. So young . So energetic. So full of life. Now gone.

For me it was hard to imagine and comprehend. It didn’t make sense for someone so full of life to be taken from it so young.

In moments like these I tend to turn to the book, Hayom Yom, a compilation of small Chassidic thoughts for each day. The thought for the day of Levi’s passing struck me.

The Rebbe explains there that “the reciting of sh'ma before retiring at night is, in miniature form, like the Confessional prayers before death”. The difference of course is that then, one checks out spiritually and physically. The actions of day to day life are finished. However, with the Shema, when the soul is returned, it is indication that the daily routine still needs to be carried out. Accomplishment and achievement still await you.”

Levi’s soul has returned to its creator and he has physically left this world. Levi’s work down below has been accomplished and it was his time to move on. While we cannot even begin to understand it, we try our best to accept that G-d has a grand plan, like Levi so fervently believed!

While Levi’s physical work here is done, his mission and agenda will continue. Levi will continue to live on in those who knew him and loved him.

Levi cannot be forgotten, he won’t allow it.

Levi, you were a dear friend and I will miss you dearly! I yearn for the coming of Moshiach when I will be able to see your cheerful smile and hear your joyous laugh once again.

Levi, the world is darker without you, but is brightened by the light created from having you.

Even if it was for just 34 short years.

Eye on the Prize

BH

(This Dvar Torah is dedicated to the everlasting memories of the “Mumbai Kedoshim”, whose Yahrtzeits were this past week, Rabbi Gavriel Noach and Rivkah Hltzberg, HY”D, the founders and directors of Chabad of Mumbai, India who lost their lives while faithfully manning their posts, and in honor of their son Moishele who was miraculously saved from the carnage and just celebrated his fourth birthday. This Dvar Torah is also dedicated to the complete and speedy recovery of Virginia Shliach (Chabad Emissary) Rabbi Levi Yitzchok ben Tzirel.)

In this week’s Parsha, Vayeitzei, Esav (Esau) is still angered at the fact that Yaakov (Jacob) ‘stole’ his birthright and blessing. Yaakov travels to the home of his uncleLavan (Laban) to take cover from Esav’s wrath.

Charan is not a place like any Yaakov had been before. Charan was a rough place to say the least. It was hectic. It was dirty. It was corrupt. Adding more fuel to the fire was the fact that Yaakov was living with his uncle Lavan. Lavan made John Gotti look like a saint.

However, the midrash teaches us that Yaakov spent his time in Charan in happiness, singing Psalms and always rejoicing.

How can that make sense? Yaakov was a holy person. Torah and G-dliness always surrounded him. Now, he’s surrounded by a Vegas like atmosphere with a New Yorker’s mentality.

Well, our forefather, Yaakov, albeit living in unfamiliar and uncomfortable territory, knew that the end game was going to be rewarding. He knew, simply, that he was inCharan for a reason and that soon, when the right time came, he would “return home”. He refused to let himself be depressed because of now and instead focused on the future.

Not that Charan was easy for Yaakov. I mean, for him to simply be able to marry someone, the girl’s father (his uncle, Lavan) required him to work seven years. And he did that TWICE (for two sisters)! Plus, Yaakov labored another seven for cattle from his uncle.

The difficulties were there. The hardships were prevalent. Considering that, Yaakov still did not allow himself to cave during challenging moments. He knew he was here for a reason and that the light at the end of the tunnel was not New Jersey!

This past week, Chabad-Lubavitch Worldwide celebrated the annual Kinus HaShluchim HaOlami – the International Conference of Chabad Emissaries. Nearly 4000 Chabad Rabbis converged on Brooklyn New York to chart their plans for the coming year and pay tribute to their leader, the Lubavitcher Rebbe, of saintly memory.

Hundreds and hundreds of Shluchim (emissaries) who are posted in isolated and often distant communities around the globe all came together as one. Many of them face foreign languages. Foreign cultures. And some places are down-right dangerous. They live in the trenches. Self-sacrifice on so many levels. Soldiers on the front line.

All of the Shluchim face challeneges and hardship. How will we provide our children a proper Jewish education? Where is the nearest Mikveh? Can I get kosher meat and milk? What about a Minyan? The list of challenges doesn’t end. Yet, speak to the Shluchim and you will learn one thing in common amongst them all: They are happy.

The Shluchim all know there is a reason for them being where they are. The Rebbe sent them there to help the world reach the next step. The reward that they work towards. The vision of the Rebbe was to have Shluchim stationed in every corner of the globe. The Rebbe wanted them to fulfill their work with joy. And the most important thing the Rebbe wanted was for the Shluchim to never lose sight of the real mission, the hastening of the arrival of Moshiach.

How were the Shluchim to hasten Moshiach’s arrival? Through spreading Yiddishkeit – Judaism – to Jewish people everywhere! Teffilin. Shabbat Candles. Family Purity. Jewish Education. And the list goes on. Through our sharing these beautiful Mitzvot with others, G-d will surely send the ultimate reward.

Choosing the Right Party

BH

(This week’s email is in memory of Chabad Shliach Rabbi Menachem Mendel Deren and in honor of a speedy and complete recovery to full good health of Chabad Shliach, Rabbi Levi Yitzchak ben Tzirel.)

In a week when the world watched as America flip-flopped in their political decisions, I was left thinking about the process of elections.

The midterm elections are generally thought of as a judgment on the president. Clearly, Americans were not so thrilled with the policies of Mr. Obama and his chambers of government.

The beauty of it all is that we have the opportunity, every couple of years, to make a difference and choose a different direction. Whether we voted for change or simply to tell the ‘yes we cans’ that “no you won’t” you still voted. We have that right to choose who leads us.

Of course the cliché comparison is to that of our mind and soul. Within each of us we have two parties. Both actually seem to offer well and reward. At face value, its hard to determine which party is the one for us. For some, it takes years or even decades to figure it out.

We have the same right to choose as we do in an election. And we also have that right to make a change. When we feel that the party of our evil inclination is winning, and we don’t like the changes they make, we can choose to reach across the aisle and make good.

In this week’s Parsha, Toldos, we are related the story of Jacob and Esau and the blessing they receive from their father, Isaac. Jacob, as the father of both, loved them equally. However, not realizing the evil Esau would create, he chose to bestow the more worthy blessing upon him. Rebecca, Isaac’s wife, saw that this blessing should be bestowed on the do-gooder, Jacob.

Rebecca developed a scheme to have Jacob receive that blessing. Rebecca also loved her children equally. However Rebecca determined which party would bring better results. After examining the issues, she voted for the party of Jacob.

When Esau learned that Jacob had ‘stolen’ his blessing he was furious! He begged his father to bless him as well. Esau was blessed but it was not nearly as great as the blessing Jacob received. Interesting to note: Why would Esau, an evil man with apparent disregard for others, even care about receiving this blessing? After all, wasn’t it all for the holy people, those who chose the righteous was?

It certainly wasn’t an inheritance Esau was after, because in reality, Isaac had nothing to leave behind. It is clear that the anger was over the blessing itself.

To understand this, we must realize where Esau comes from. Born and raised in the house of Abraham and Isaac, Esau was a natural to the belief in G-d and holiness. At heart, he believed it all and held it dear. He was – to use a modern day phrase – a ‘Jew at heart”. Born to a Jewish mother and possessing a Jewish soul imbued him with a strong belief in G-d and the super-natural.

While Esau did truly understand the reward of holiness and G-dliness, he chose to caucus with the other party campaigning inside his mind. The party of evil. His "Jewish heart," did not transform into a moral lifestyle. It was reserved for another time. He knew what was right, but was unwilling to make that vote as the other party lobbied hard. They won.

Jacob was a Jew not only at heart, but in practice as well. With faith alone we will never accomplish all that needs to be done. Action is of essence! That’s what we must do everyday. We must act! We must vote, not only for the party that makes us spiritual internally, but spiritual externally. While both offer good in the acceptance of G-dliness, the party of action and Mitzvot is the party that will serve you best.

Now is our chance to choose again. Let’s get out there and vote!

Thats Bashert?!

BH

In this week’s Parshah, Chaya Sarah, we are introduced to the idea of Jewish Matchmaking. It can be said that the term “a match made in heaven” was coined this week, in the times of Abraham.

Abraham sends his servant, Eliezer, with gifts of jewelry, to find a match for his beloved son, Yitzchak (Isaac). Avraham did not know who it would be, or where she would come from, but he trusted in G-d, whom he had recently accepted as creator of the world.

Who would think? Avraham our famed forefather would take the daughter of Betuel, who had not yet accepted G-d. Imagine it like this: The son of a great Hassidic Rebbi taking the daughter of Christopher Hitchens as his wife. Unfathomable!

How can we explain this? And in more understandable terminology, how can we understand the “art of the Shidduch” (Jewish matchmaking).

Everyone has heard the word Bashert. What does it mean? In this Parshah we are taught the idea of Bashert in its purest form. Jew who was JFB (Jew from birth). He was raised in a home of holiness and purity.

Rivkah on the other hand, was the daughter of the pagan Betuel and sister of the infamous Laban, who was notorious for his dishonorable character. She was raised in Charan which was called "the place of G‑d's wrath." The culture clash must have been enormous.

The shadchan (matchmaker) who thought this one up certainly had a very unique imagination. It would be very difficult to find two people from more different environments. However, it was Bashert. They were made for each other!

This shows the complete faith and trust Avraham had in G-d. He knew that G-d would present the right maiden for his son, Yitzchak. He didn’t even question. Regardless of who Betuel or his family was, Avraham accepted Rivkah for who she was and how she completed Yitzchak.

Avraham believed. In today’s day, many groups within Judaism still implement the Shidduch system. And it still works! People come together from across the globe, and from many varying backgrounds. They create homes based on the same fundamentals that the home of Yitzchak and Rivkah was built upon.

The blessings of this week’s Parshah, and the first Shidduch should be bestowed upon all who are searching for their own Bashert! May we merit to celebrate the unions of many Jewish couples!

Learning from a Modern Miracle

BH

“Lech Lecha Meartzecha” – The three words that this weeks Parsha begins with. This phrase means “go forth from your land.” I can’t help but think… All this talk about 33 Chilean miners, being trapped in a mine for 69 days, and being rescued from the land during the week of Lech Lecha.

In the Parsha, G-d is telling Avraham (Abraham) to go forth from the land in which he is currently situated and to relocate to another land. G-d does not tell him where, nor does he tell him for how long. What Avraham does know is that this new locale will provide better life for him and the descendants G-d promises him in the second verse of the Parsha.

In Chile, 33 miners were tested, in what can be compared to a similar situation as Avraham’s. August 5^th, 2010, a mine collapses in the region of Copiapó. 33 miners are feared gone, as the entrance/exit is now blocked, they are more than 2,000 feet below the earth’s surface, and there emergency food supply is only expected to last 3 days at best.

It’s a dark and gloomy situation, with literally no vision of a viable rescue. Yet, a few weeks down the line, rescue workers discover that all 33 are alive, and have maintained good spirits and health with the help of one another. An open modern day miracle! However, the ordeal is far from over. Nearly two more months will pass before these men will see daylight again.

Avraham was sent from his mine, the land of Charan, to the surface, the Holy Land. It wasn’t an easy ride, but a ride worth the wait. It’s easy for us to read the story of Avraham year after, but I’m not certain we have ever had a “current event” that helps us really understand.

Avraham discovers that there is a G-d. He makes it his mission to spread the word. Some choose to listen, others scoff. The world continues, idol worship and other forms of deities come and go. Today the entire world, whether they choose admit it or not, sees the hand of that G-d that Avraham discovered.

G-d tested Avraham. Time and time again. Avraham continuously chose to accept G-d and obey his command. Today we must still see ourselves as Avraham. We must “go forth from our land,” meaning, out of our comfort zone and toward a lifestyle that G-d shows us. We are to take the leap and we will be led to great reward.

On a closing note, while speaking of “Lech Lecha” – “going from your land” – I would like to share some happenings in my personal life.

This week, I relocated from Brooklyn, NY to Montreal, Canada. I went from my land, my comfort zone, to a new location to explore new experiences. While I had been in Montreal for my high school years, this time would be different.

This time, I am a young professional working with the staff at Chabad @ McGill University in Montreal’s downtown. In the spirit of Avraham and this week’s Parsha, I hope that this relocation – this “going forth” - will reap reward and happiness.

Shabbat Shalom from the Chabad Center (or is it "centre" now that I'm in Canada :) ?) at McGill University in Montreal, Canada.

(Learn more about (or donate to :) ) Chabad @ McGill by visiting www.ChabadMcGill.com)

Choosing Life to Live

Please accept my apologies for the late email. My new yeas resolution will be to get better with the timing of my pre-Shabbat emails. Please, hold me to it.

(This email is memory of Michoel Aron ben Avraham - Michael – Noeth hy”d, who lost his life in an act of cowardly terror on September 11^th, 2001 at the Pentagon. Michaal’s, and all the other innocent victims’ yahrtzeitz were Thursday of this week, the 23^rd of the Jewish month of Elul.)

This Shabbat* is the last Shabbat of the Jewish year 5770. In the coming week we will celebrate Rosh Hashana and the beginning of what we pray will be a happy, healthy and successful new year for ourselves, all Jewish people and the world as a whole. Welcome to 5771.

With the approach of Rosh Hashana and the culmination of the month of Elul, we will aim our focus of the last few days of 5770 to offer our prayers for world peace and gainful life. We are taught that during the month of Elul the King is in the field, HaMelech BaSodeh. The is to mean that G-d our King of Kings is easily accessible during the 12^th month to receive our prayers and requests for the new year.

Knowing that G-d is listening at this time – and not only listening, but seeking our interaction – What will you say? What will you choose?

Interestingly, during the first of this week’s joint Torah portion of Nitzavim and Vayailech we are actually given a tip. In fact we are given an answer.

I call this day upon heaven and earth as witnesses. I have set before you life and death, blessing and curse. And you shall choose life, so that you and your children may live. (Deuteronomy 30:19)

Great, we are told in the Torah that we should choose life. You may be asking yourself, I need this email to tell me to choose life at this time? Who would choose death?

Well, let’s take a look. There is living and there is existing. When we approach the King who breathes life into us, the G-d who provides for us and the master who has come out to see us, what will we ask for? Will we ask for health and wealth so we can sit around simply existing, or will we ask for wellbeing and livelihood in order to live?

What’s the difference? For one, existing can be viewed as selfish. Living is including others. Living involves giving back. Living is making a difference. To choose life means to choose to live a meaningful life, a life committed to values and a higher purpose.

Will my presence on this earth make a difference? That’s the question we need be asking ourselves at this time. Would anyone in the long run even realize I existed? Is my life productive, worthwhile?

When the first Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi, wanted to bless one eof his followers, Reb Yekutiel Liepler with wealth, Liepler declined. He said he was afraid it would distract him from more spiritual pursuits. He was afraid it wouold distract him from “Living!” The Rebbe then offered to bless him with longevity. This, Reb Yekutiel feared wouold lead to a long but empty life.

Reb Yekutiel chose to “live” rather than “exist.” He chose to live a life that would be purposeful, productive and really would make a tangible difference.

As we stand just five days before Rosh Hashanah, and ahead of “Motzei Shabbos Selichos” – the supplication prayers we offer the Saturday night prior to Rosh Hashana**, let us resolve to choose life. Let us live lives of Torah values and noble deeds. And may we be blessed with a good and sweet new year.

*This Shabbat, while it is the Shabbat before a new Jewish month, will not include the customary “blessing of the new month” as do other Shabbats prior to the new month. According to the Chassidic Master, the Baal Shem Tov, "G-d Himself blesses the month of Tishrei, and it is with the power of this blessing that the people of Israel bless the other months of the year."

**The Selichot prayers are offered every year on the Saturday night prior to Rosh Hashana. (unless Rosh Hashana is on Monday or Tuesday, when the Selichot would be conducted the previous Saturday night.) The custom is to do the Selichot on Sunday morning but at the earliest time possible on Sunday. Thus, we offer the prayers on Saturday night, just after the halcahik midnight passes (just about 1:00 AM in most places). For more about the Selichot prayers and for the full Hebrew-English text, please visit: http://tinyurl.com/6moefg.

Holiness in the IDF

BH

Back from the Holy Land once again.

Mayanot Israel – Birthright Bus 559:
- Forty American college students or recent graduates
- A charming student leader
- A “Spiritual Guide” (me )
- A youthful Israeli coordinator
- A humorous tour guide
- An adored security guard/medic
- An obnoxious bus driver
- Eight very special Israeli soldiers.

For the third time this year, I trekked through the Land of Israel in lighting speed with my Mayanot group. Caesarea, Tiberias, The Golan and Galil, Tzfat, Tel Aviv, the Negev, Jerusalem and more – all in 10 quick days. Sure, I’ve seen 98% of the sites before, but this time it was different – and I’m not only referring to the above 100°F weather. What I speak of is my “crew” – the staff and participants of Mayanot 559.

On this trip, as in the past, my group and I shared many special moments. TEN members of our family celebrated their Bat Mitzvah at the Western Wall! Also at the Kotel, FIVE 559ers entered Jewish manhood as a Bar Mitzvah. ELEVEN of us adopted Jewish names for the first time in our life. In addition, FOUR of our sisters kindled the lights of Shabbat for the very first time and EIGHT of our brothers performed their first donning of Teffilin.

So, there you have it; the numbers of Mayanot 559. There were many great moments for our group as we celebrated together, danced together, prayed together and grew together.

After presenting all these number, there is one that particularly sticks out for me, especially this week. “Eight very special Israeli Soldiers.”

As has become a popular component of Taglit, our now close-knit family grew by eight for five of our 10 days. Those eight being “Chayalim” – Soldiers - in the Israel Defense Forces, the IDF. All from very different upbringings from each other, these eight young men and women quickly morphed into important roles on our trip. Our American youth and Israeli took “integration” to a new level. Friendships grew quickly and everyone was learning each others’ cultures.

The American student and the Israeli soldier – today’s Jewish youth. From very different backgrounds and levels of observance our crew quickly learned that our soldiers were special people. For hours and hours, every day, our remarkable gang-of-eight spoke of their love for Israel and their privilege of defending her.

The Lubavitcher Rebbe held the IDF troops in high regard and Mayanot 559’s Chayalim are no different. The Rebbe once stated that those that have total willingness to defend our Land and our people 24/7 are of a different level. These are people that even have the ability to bless others.

This week’s Parshah, Ki Teitzei states (Deuteronomy 23:15) "V’hoya Machanecho Kadosh “And your [military] camps shall be holy.” This is where the Torah tells of several requirements that need be performed to ensure that the Jewish military camps are regarded as holy and are presented that way.

After five days with our IDF troops, I see this verse still very much in play. I overheard one of the soldiers discussing with an American participant. His display of Jewish pride made me shiver. I was amazed. During that conversation I heard him say several times how privileged he is to fight for the Jewish people.

All eight of our soldiers made it their duty during five short days to deliver this specific message. While some of them are admittedly not observant by any stretch, their sense of Jewish pride and honor pierces the highest ceilings! To me, this public display of Yiddishkeit – Judaism – makes today’s IDF camps Kadosh, holy.

I have led three trips, and if my math skills serve me right, that means I have now had 24 proud IDF members in my groups. While all of them, and even throw in the three security guards I’ve worked with – all former soldiers – have displayed unbelievable pride and honor, this group taught me a few things.

In five days with my most recent group of soldiers I learned the importance of speaking out for your cause, even when it may not be popular. Not every American kid agrees with them, but they simply did not stop. They were going to inform their new friends about their selfless defense of the Jewish state and of the Jewish people.

Pride. Honor. Self-sacrifice. This ensures that your military camps will be holy.

This defines our Chayalim.

May G-d bestow unlimited blessing upon our brave brothers and sisters that stand guard over our Holy Land!

Competition: It Helps us Grow

BH

A little boy runs into his public school three minutes after the final bell. Huffing and puffing he twirls around a corner, his school bag flopping through air. He makes a dash down the stretch to his first-grade classroom and comes to a crash landing at the door. The teacher has already begun and she won’t let him in.

The little boy knocks, but to no avail. In despair, he sets his backpack on the floor, sits down next to it with his back against the wall, lowers his head and begins to sob. After a few moments he hears a voice. “Evan, this is G-d. I hate to see you so sad, why are you sitting in the hallway crying?”

Momentarily startled, Evan lifts his head and looks around but sees no one there. He speaks out into the empty hallway. “I’m sad and I’m crying because they won’t let me into the classroom.”

G-d calmly replies, “Don’t worry son; these days, they won’t let me in either!”

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I mention this joke for a reason. We as people – especially Jewish people – have been conditioned to question G-d. We all secretly convince ourselves that we could even do a better job creating the world if we were given the chance. In truth, that’s Jewish mentality!

In this week's Torah reading, Parshat Re’eh, it states, "Behold I place before you today the blessing and the curse," i.e., good vs. evil, life vs. death. This in itself develops many questions. Why create evil? Why make it a choice? Why not just create everyone happy and peaceful?

Rabbi Elisha Greenbaum, a writer for Chabad.org actually makes a comparison as such:

“A few years ago members of the Department of Education issued had a “brilliant” idea: from now on no scores were to be kept when umpiring kids' sports. Losing, competing and all those other nasty vices went against the latest political correctness manifesto.” Writes Rabbi Greenbaum.

“The only problem” continues Rabbi Greenbaum, “ was that the kids didn't buy it. Sports, by definition, are competitive. Without a method of keeping score, with no winner or loser, the exercise becomes pointless.”

This past week I attended the JCC Maccabi Games in Richmond, VA as a volunteer. I realized first hand that taking the “competitive” out of sports would be ultra silly. 800 young Jewish athletes from across the USA, Canada and Israel came together to compete – not just to play.

The competitions however aren’t based on hate; they are based on love and friendship. We are playing with each other as Jewish people. These young athletes aren’t growing up with hatred towards others for having lost along the way. It’s in fact the exact opposite. When one team loses, they in turn learned how to better themselves to prevent the same result next time.

In life we have the same exact scenario. God created good and evil. There is a reason he didn’t create a leveled playing field. Would that not pull the purpose out of what we do? If there was no evil to overcome, what would be so wonderful about “good”? It wouldn’t be “good” it would just be!

At the Maccabi games, I volunteered for three days to man Chabad of Virginia’s booth at Hang Time, the “chill area” for the athletes. We had Teffilin, Shabbat candles, prayer books and more. I was amazed at how many people came over to the booth to participate.

These athletes knew that in everycompetition, you need help to win and for many of them, that help came in the form of G-d. Even in a society where so many grow up questioning G-d or even choosing to not believe, the Maccabi athletes proved something to me: No matter what walk of life, we all believe that there is “something” out there that can help us.

“We did the Tefilin at the games last year and we won every game! We want G-d on our side again!” exclaimed one young man who was on his way to a soccer match. Dozens of girls took home their very first set of Shabbat candles and over a hundred boys donned teffilin, dozens for the first time!

Without a scoreboard, the Maccabi Games become pointless. Without good and evil, life becomes pointless. The way it was set up, leaves us with a purpose and a desire win.

If you have followed me in the last couple of years, you’ll know that I have done many thing like this. I’ve been to far flung places to assist Jewish people with their observance. I’ve led Passover in Africa, I’ve led dozens of American college students on trips to Israel, and now, I have volunteered at the Maccabi games.

Each time, it’s a new experience and each time I am re-inspired. Even in my own backyard.